Most of us have been there. Fell in love, got hurt, cheated on, left behind and replaced with another woman and then we moved on. But for some, there is this longing and hoping of getting back together and make the man fall in love with them all over again.
It may sound stupid and nonsensical but the hopeless romantic in us always hopes for another chance in love – with the same man.
So, let’s try and see where can we help. Love has a multitude of facets; it is not a one-dimensional feeling. It is of many things - like emotional and physical attraction, affection, compatibility, and commitment.
And when your man says he is falling out of love, it usually is he has lost interest in you and attraction is dwindling down but affection and commitment is still there.
It is never wrong to try and mend a relationship, but it would be great if both are willing to give it another try. However, should you be pressed to fight for it alone, here are tips how you can make your man fall in love with you again.
- Make him remember how it felt the first time you met each other. How it all started and how the beginning of the relationship felt. All those fluttering butterflies in your stomach, those unbearable moments when you were apart. The surprises you both do with unexpected gifts and dinner dates. The spontaneous and out-of-the-blue outings and road trips – just the two of you. And the first you both were attracted to each other. Reminisce the first time you were madly in love with each other. And of course, never forget the times you both laughed.
- Tell him you love him. Still and nothing has changed despite of the looming end of the relationship. Be honest, sincere, and be open. You might grow to think that he already knows how you feel but you always have to explicitly tell your partner how much you love and care for him no matter what and no matter how much time has passed. Remind him how lucky you are to have him.
- Give him space. It may sound counter intuitive but yes, you should give him space. Make this time to spend time on yourselves. It will help the both of you to reflect and redirect on your long-term plans for your relationship. Try to pick up old hobbies even if you’re both in the house, give yourself some quiet time while pursuing your old hobbies or go finish a book you started reading a long time ago. Believe me, it brings in new energy and make you regain excitement on the relationship.
- Do something new together. Responsibilities and life sometimes get in the way and has made everything so predictable. Both of you started being lazy making each other extra happy and feel special. And when the spark starts to fizzle that’s when you realized you haven’t done enough together to enjoy your time together. Doing something fun and exciting together for the first time will help you remember how fun it is to be together and rekindle the trust and affection for each other. Of course, don’t restrict yourself only to the fun you can do in the bedroom. Explore new adventures!
Hope the tips above will help you make your man fall in love with you all over again. Making him do is actually easier than you think. Men are factual and logical beings; they prioritize their basic needs more than anything. Most times they free-beings, fun and open. They don’t want other agendas. Surrendering your power and making him feel there’s mutual respect and compatibility and then sooner you’ll be back in each other’s arms again.
